Only you can decide or you partner that are you ready to
become the parent. You have to think that is it right for you? Parenting is
delightful but also demanding. You have to fulfil the needs of your child, it
takes a lot of vitality.
You will have a hard time if you are expecting so much after
becoming parent. Spend some time with other parents and chat with them, it will
help you in making decision whether you need a child or not. Take care of a
relative’s child if you had not spent time with a child in past, it will also
help you in decision making.
Can you fulfill your child’s need? Before getting into
pregnancy think about it. Kids need you time, energy and care. You have to plan
their daily schedule, you have to buy their clothes, diapers, food and so on.
You have to make some changes in your life such as, your
eating habits during pregnancy. You will have very less time for yourself after
having child. Make a list of your feelings about raising a child, and also about
your desires for your future life. This will help you in making a decision.